"My boyfriend, about to get married, confessed a 200 million won debt from investments... Is it okay to marry him?"

Made a bad investment 2 years ago, resulting in about 200 million won debt
In-laws promised to resolve it, but still feeling uneasy

A story of a woman in her 20s who is confused after her boyfriend confessed to having a debt of 200 million won ahead of their wedding has been shared. On the 11th, an online community Nate Pann posted a thread titled 'Boyfriend who confessed before the wedding.'

A, who identified herself as a woman in her mid-20s, is about to marry her boyfriend B, whom she has been dating for four years. A said, "Although the marriage is at a young age, we have been together for a long time and get along very well, so we have already completed most of the preparations such as the formal meeting between families and booking the wedding hall." Then one day, A heard an unexpected story from her boyfriend. It was that B had a debt of about 200 million won.

A story has been shared about a woman in her 20s who is confused after her boyfriend confessed to having a debt of 200 million won just before their wedding. On the 11th, a post titled "Boyfriend's Confession Before Marriage" was uploaded on an online community.
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A said, "I found out that my boyfriend had a debt of about 200 million won due to a bad investment two years ago," and added, "He voluntarily told me, but I am upset that he hid it all this time and I am scared there might be other secrets." She continued, "My boyfriend’s parents didn’t know about the debt either, and when they found out this time, it caused a big commotion," and "Before the wedding, my future in-laws decided to take care of all the debt, so it was settled for now, but the more I think about it, the more uneasy and uncomfortable I feel," she complained.

A worried, "Since both of us are just starting our careers, even if they say they will pay it off, it’s a large amount, so thinking about it as a gift feels wasteful, and I’m also worried they might not be able to pay it back." She added, "Even if I think of it as life experience or an expensive lesson, I don’t know if this is the right thing," and "It’s very upsetting to have such noise before the wedding. We have never fought during our relationship and get along so well that breaking up would be very hard," expressing her complicated feelings.

Finally, she asked for advice from netizens, saying, "Everyone makes mistakes in life, but this seems like a big one, so it’s hard. My parents are upset too, but they said they will leave it to me. However, they said they don’t know how to accept him as their son-in-law. Please give me some advice." Netizens who read the story responded with comments such as, "You’re still in your 20s, why rush? It’s not too late to pay off the debt and then get married," "The problem is not the repayment but the fact that there is debt," "It’s more worrying since even the parents didn’t know about the debt," and "Isn’t it important to know what kind of investment it was?"