"Dating Man Furious at Blind Date Woman's Remark 'I Want to Live as a Man'"

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A woman posted about being scolded absurdly after going on a blind date, and her story has become a hot topic.

On the 7th, a post titled "I got scolded by my blind date, what did I do wrong?" was uploaded on an online community.

A woman posted about receiving an absurd scolding after going on a blind date, which has become a hot topic.
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The writer explained that she entered a prepaid cafe and paid for the coffee first, then when the man said he wanted to buy a meal, she guided him to a pasta restaurant she usually liked.

She said, "While waiting after ordering pasta, he suddenly looked upset," and "I tried to say various things to lighten the mood a bit."

She continued, "When we were talking at the cafe, the blind date guy went to an all-boys high school, and I went to an all-girls high school, so we shared funny episodes from our schools," adding, "That reminded me, so I said, 'I want to live as a man next time. I'm curious about life in an all-boys school,' but his expression turned sour."

She said, "I couldn't understand why he was visibly upset and serious in a situation where we should be polite to each other, so when paying the bill, I gave half of the meal cost in cash, thinking I wouldn't meet him again."

The writer added, "He strongly refused, but said he would give me a ride nearby, so since I had bought coffee, I accepted the ride. Then he asked why I wanted to live as a man," and "I didn't want to explain at length, so I just said I was curious and laughed, but he got angry saying, 'Do you think being a man is easy? Living as a woman is all hard, and men just look easy.'"

She explained to the blind date guy, "I just said I was curious because I had lived as a woman once and wondered what it would be like as a man," but when getting out of the car, he said again, "Don't underestimate men," she said, "I have three older brothers and work in a male-dominated company, so there are many men around me, but I have never underestimated or looked down on them."

In a follow-up, the writer said the matchmaker came near her company at lunchtime to apologize, explaining, "The initial reason he was angry was because the pasta restaurant was expensive, and after that, it seemed he got upset about my comment about wanting to live as a man."

Netizens responded, "There must be many who cling like that. He's a personality disorder," "Seems like he has paranoia against women," and "The time spent on the blind date was wasted. Just forget it and meet someone good."