"Please Pat My Butt"...Wife Who Cheated Twice Again

Wife Betrays Husband Twice... Husband Outraged
Tells 11-Year-Old Son, "Support Mom's Life"

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A husband's story of being betrayed twice by his wife has sparked public outrage. It is reported that the wife cheated and even asked their young son to support her.

According to JTBC's 'Incident Commander' on the 8th, Mr. A, a man in his 40s, was known as a loving couple in the neighborhood until a year ago. His wife, who is three years younger, was a caring and good mother to their 11-year-old son.

The problem arose from a mistakenly sent message from the wife to Mr. A. While chatting on messenger, the wife suddenly sent a cute message saying, "Please pat my butt♥" and immediately deleted it. Receiving such an unexpected message, Mr. A began to suspect his wife's infidelity from that moment.

One day, Mr. A took advantage of his son playing with his wife's phone to check it and discovered a "dating app." The wife regularly posted messages like "Bored person living in ○○dong?" and dozens of men sent her messages. It was confirmed that the wife met with 10 men over six months.

On the wife's phone, there were traces of exchanging obscene conversations with men and sending bikini photos taken during family trips to them. After calmly collecting evidence, Mr. A confronted his wife. She admitted the affair, saying, "I think I was crazy. I'm so sorry to you and really want to die."

Initially, Mr. A prepared for divorce and alienation lawsuits and took a tough stance. However, when his wife showed extreme depression and repeated pessimistic remarks, he hesitated and, thinking of their young son, ultimately chose divorce mediation instead of a lawsuit. He asked his wife not to cheat during the marriage. The wife’s affair was not disclosed to either side's parents.

Mr. A explained, "When writing the divorce mediation agreement, I tried to add a condition. I proposed, 'If you cheat again during the marriage, all property will be transferred to one side,' but she said, 'I would never do that, so why include such a clause?'" He added, "But recently, I found out again. Being betrayed twice really made me angry." The wife cheated again during the divorce mediation period.

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The couple had even agreed specifically not to inform their son about the divorce until he reached middle school. However, the wife openly talked on the phone with her affair partner while driving with their son. Eventually, the son asked Mr. A, "Is mom cheating?" Moreover, the wife said to their son things like, "You can live without mom now, right?" and "You will support mom's life, won't you?"

Mr. A confronted his wife about this, but she responded confidently, "It's already over anyway, so who I meet is none of your business." Unable to endure it any longer, Mr. A sought help from his in-laws, but his mother-in-law replied, "You're an adult, and so is our daughter. Why are you tattling over this?" and "Once you put a dot on the letter '님' (a Korean honorific), you're strangers, so just live separately."

Attorney Son Suho, who heard the story, advised, "You should file an alienation lawsuit. If necessary, you can proceed from mediation to an actual trial," and added, "Until the divorce is finalized, they are legally spouses, so the wife's behavior should be considered misconduct." Netizens reacted strongly, saying things like, "Aren't you ashamed in front of your son?" "She will get divine punishment," "Just hearing this makes me furious," "I hope her identity is revealed," "Why did you even get married?" "Talking on the phone with the affair partner in front of the son is crossing the line," "She's not even human," "She gave up being a person," "If I were the husband, I wouldn't have let this go," "At least pretend to reflect," and "It's really cruel as a human being beyond being a couple or man and woman."