Divorced Women Focus on a Man's Eating Habits During Remarriage Matchmaking

Men Focus on Women's 'Question Content'

Returning singles (dolsing) identified different points to assess their prospective partners during remarriage matchmaking: men focused on 'the content of questions,' while women emphasized 'eating habits.'

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On the 6th, Only-U, a remarriage-specialized site, in collaboration with the marriage information company Bienarae (CEO Son Dong-gyu), conducted a survey via email and phone from the 30th of last month to the 4th of this month. The survey targeted 516 nationwide (twilight) remarriage hopeful dolsing men and women (256 men and 256 women) and yielded these results.

In response to the first question, "What is the most useful factor to easily assess the other person during a remarriage matchmaking meeting?" the answers between men and women differed significantly.

Men ranked 'the content of questions' (28.3%) and 'attire' (26.7%) as first and second, while women chose 'eating habits' (29.8%) and 'the content of questions' (26.4%) respectively.

Following that, men answered 'tone of voice' (20.2%) and 'makeup' (16.8%), whereas women responded with 'attire' (21.3%) and 'tone of voice' (18.2%) in order.

An Only-U representative explained, "Many dolsing men say that by listening to the questions women ask during matchmaking, they can guess the criteria women use to select their remarriage partner. Women often become disappointed by the partner’s choice of restaurant and menu, dining manners, and attitude toward restaurant staff, which frequently prevents the relationship from progressing."

Next, in response to the question, "What aspects do you try to hide to avoid losing points with your partner during remarriage matchmaking?" 31.0% of male respondents answered 'not to appear picky.' Women selected 'not to appear sensitive' at 29.1%.

Men followed with ▲not to rush (25.6%) ▲not to appear overbearing (19.0%) ▲not to act know-it-all (16.3%) in that order.

Women’s subsequent answers were ▲not to appear picky (26.7%) ▲not to rush (22.1%) ▲not to act know-it-all (15.5%).

Son Dong-gyu, CEO of Only-U, said, "Dolsing who have experienced failed marriages tend to focus more on their partner’s shortcomings rather than their strengths during remarriage matchmaking. Both men and women dolsing seek warm and comforting spouses, so men try to hide their picky sides, and women try to conceal their sensitive sides."

Additionally, CEO Son added, "Finding a remarriage partner involves many obstacles, and many unsatisfactory aspects are discovered in the other person. To succeed in remarriage, one must adopt a positive mindset and a willingness to embrace the partner."