[Stones and Stories] There Is Timing Even in Throwing Down Stones

Baduk emphasizes posture. Even when admitting defeat, it is important to compose both body and mind. This is an act of respecting the opponent and a practice that elevates one's own dignity. Does the bitterness of defeat lessen just because it is Baduk? However, if one maintains an unshaken posture in the face of defeat, the opponent cannot help but bow their head. Because the momentary arrogance indulged in victory feels shameful...

The philosophy of Baduk contains lessons of coexistence. Those who realize this meaning in Baduk are qualified to join the bold journey toward a dignified life. It means escaping from the current life, which is like a vicious cycle that destroys one's soul, worn down by worldly matters, and walking a new path in life.

What should the conclusion of a Baduk game, the starting point for entering such a course, look like? In Baduk, the outcome is decided even before the counting of territory (gyega). This is the act of admitting defeat by throwing down stones. It suffices to carefully place dead stones (saseok) on the board and accompany it with a light silent bow (mugrye) toward the opponent. Admitting defeat is a painful decision, but there is no professional player who has never thrown down stones at least once.

The problem is that timing the act of throwing down stones is not as easy as it seems. Even world-class players with excellent Baduk skills sometimes fail to find the right timing to resign, damaging their dignity. Throwing down stones too early is also impolite. It can come across as irresponsible and rash. On the other hand, delaying resignation out of fear is also far from courteous. When the outcome has long been decided and there is no chance of reversal, not throwing down stones is tantamount to admitting narrow-mindedness (hyeomnyang). Having the courage to boldly resign when there is still a slight regret is also bravery.

Otake Hideo 9-dan, known as the "aesthete of the board," was famous for resigning one move earlier than usual. His conviction was that waiting for the opponent's mistake and clinging to victory is not the proper attitude of a Baduk player. Those who can fully accept the immediate defeat, no matter how bitter and painful, can seize the opportunity for growth. The moment of choice comes to everyone.

Not only in Baduk but also in our lives, there are times when we must find the right moment to resign. Who knows best when that appropriate time is? The one who knows best whether life is on the right course is oneself. It is just that one delays the timing to resign because of greed and desire right in front of them. The longer the delay, the more pitiful one becomes?the very person seen when standing in front of the mirror.