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A story about a woman who found out late that her fianc?’s ex-girlfriend had been contacting him daily is sparking outrage among netizens.

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On the 26th, a post titled "My boyfriend contacting his ex-girlfriend while preparing for marriage" was uploaded to an online community. The author, A, who is preparing to marry her boyfriend of three years, began by saying, "I recently saw my boyfriend’s phone and found out he had been consistently exchanging messages with his ex-girlfriend."

A shared conversations between her boyfriend, B, and his ex-girlfriend, C. When C sent photos of her daily life, B replied with messages like "cute." C responded, "I think I’ll cry when you get married."

A explained that both B and C currently have partners. She said, "It seems they both know each other has partners." She added, "My boyfriend apologized and confessed honestly, saying he had been in contact with her even before we started dating." She continued, "I had no idea about this during our three years together. He tried to justify it by saying that although they kept in touch, it was without any feelings, so he didn’t think it was wrong. When I got angry, he finally admitted it was wrong and promised not to do it again. But now, I’m not sure if continuing with this marriage is the right thing to do."

A expressed frustration, saying, "My boyfriend says he won’t do it again but insists he didn’t think he was wrong at the time. That woman also has a long-term boyfriend, yet she’s consulting my boyfriend about her relationship problems," she vented.

She added, "When I told my boyfriend I would also consult my ex about similar issues, he finally admitted, ‘I know I was wrong now. I really have no feelings for my ex-girlfriend.’ But it’s even more frustrating that he claims he didn’t know his behavior was wrong. The more we talk, the more I feel like I’m the only one acting strangely." She asked for advice, saying, "I don’t know how to handle this. I don’t want to continue preparing for the wedding, but I’m worried rumors will spread if I call off the marriage."

Netizens who read the story responded with comments such as, "Don’t do anything with someone who lacks common sense," "He says he’s sorry now, but you never know what’s really inside," "If you leave now, rumors will only last a short time, but marrying him is like jumping into a cesspool," "No man keeps in touch consistently without feelings," and "They must still have feelings for each other."