[Kim Maengnyeong's Golf English Conversation] "Good Winner and Sweet Loser"

When the match is decided, they congratulate and comfort each other.

Presidential elections and golf have something in common.

Even after fierce competition without any concession, the moment victory is decided, the opponents shake hands and share congratulations and consolation. This beautiful scene is remembered as a symbol of refined intelligence and the spirit of fair play. Losing is part of a game. The defeated candidate admits defeat by saying "I'm giving up on you" and then sends a congratulatory message, "Congratulations on your presidential win with sincerity."

Both politics and golf are based on fair play (Win or lose, do it fairly). This is why it is said, "A good winner and a great sweet Loser." Regardless of the outcome, if one does not have the character to accept defeat and offer congratulations, winning has no meaning. Of course, the answer to the question "Which is harder, being a great winner or a great loser?" is the latter. It is difficult to show a generous attitude after losing a game.

In the UK, being a good loser is considered a point of pride more than being a good winner. There are two types. A 'good loser' accepts defeat purely and without complaint. On the other hand, a 'bad loser' or 'sore loser' refuses to acknowledge defeat, raises objections, and shifts the blame for the loss onto the opponent. In golf, 'losing' is expressed as 'lost the game' or 'beat someone.'

A: I just lost the game to you. Congratulations on your victory on the LPGA tour.

B: Thank you very much. I've enjoyed playing with you.

A: You were making some great shots today.

B: Yes it was. It was an easier course than I had expected.

Written and photographed by Kim Maengnyeong, Golf Columnist